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RAISING A FAMILY IN THE CITY

I reread this short excursus from Redeemer’s Church Planting Manual and it resonated with me much more after living in the city. Great advice for young couples who are new to the city or considering moving to the city and raising a family there.

“Realize that your block is your primary neighborhood. Look for a block that is not on too busy a street and where there are other young families and long-term residents.”

“Take advantage of the many educational and cultural opportunities the city has to offer and get involved with your neighbors.”

“Realize that the frustrations, difficulties, dangers and problems can be used by God to teach you and your family valuable lessons. The urban environment can be a terrific place to grow spiritually for all of you, but be prepared for spiritual warfare. It’s no playground!”

“Be sure both parents want to live in the city. Once the decision has been made, decide together on the section of the city and the neighborhood. There’s plenty to choose from, and making the choice together is a key to success and happiness in the city.”

“Make it a matter of serious prayer before deciding to move to (or remain in) the city. Where yo live is a religious choice and it’s important to know that the Lord wants you where you are.”

“If you are about to move into a large city for the first time, expect some culture shock. It’s a lot like moving to a foreign country. Determine to be flexible, and go slowly.”

“Recognize that it takes time to make friends in the ciyt. People here are not as open as they are in small towns and many suburbs. You will have to put forth time and effort to get to know your neighbors and build relationships.”

“Set your minds to avoid making comparisons between your own suburban childhood and your children’s life in the big city. Comparisons of that kind can have negative effects, especially when you remember only the positive aspects of suburban and small-town life.”

“Make friends of city people; learn to relax and enjoy their company. It isn’t good for you or your children always to run off to your suburban friends when you want a good time.”

“Consider carefully your motives for living in the city. are you ready to love city people, open your home and hearts to them, and become one with them? If you choose the city because of the ‘glamour’ of it, or because you think that somehow you’re going to ‘save the city’ you are in for a letdown. Come here to learn, to love, to serve and you’ll find a place and a welcome.”

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God, break my heart for the poor

Every Thursday, I want to wake up and ask, “God, give me a vision today to see and fight against injustice.” There is nothing special about Thursdays. More injustice doesn’t happen on Thursday than Monday, but I found for my life, giving a full day to focus on God’s vision and heartbeat overflows into the way I see things the rest of the week. I had the privilege to join several pastors on the northside of Chicago in prayer. We specifically pleaded for God to hear our cry in regards to the shootings and violence that is rising in Chicago. We poured our heart out to God. We were broken. The needs in the city are so great and overwhelming, many ignore them. I get it though – we can’t fix the problems of Chicago. We can’t stop the violence in and of ourselves. However, we can each shape the life of one person.

If you aren’t sure what God cares about, read the Bible and see what re-occuring themes come up. His glory is an obvious one. But over and over again the Scriptures paint our Father’s benevolent heart bent toward humanity when it is weak and lacking. The poor, widows, orphans, and foreigners are should be so dear to our heart like our Daddy’s heart. Isaiah the prophet says that they are our own flesh and blood (Isaiah 58:6-9).

Here is a short sampling of God’s heart for the poor.

Exodus 22:21
“You must not mistreat or oppress foreigners in any way. Remember, you yourselves were once foreigners in the land of Egypt.”

Exodus 22:22-23
“Do not take advantage of a widow or an orphan. If you do and they cry out to me. I will certainly hear their cry.”

Exodus 23:3
“And do not slant your testimony in favor of a person just because that person is poor.”

Exodus 23:6
“In a lawsuit, you must not deny justice to the poor.”

Exodus 23:11
“. . . but let the land be renewed and lie uncultivated during the seventh year. Then let the poor among you harvest whatever grows on its own. Leave the rest for wild animals to eat. The same applies to your vineyards and olive groves.”

Exodus 30:15
“When this offering is given to the Lord to purify your lives, making you right with him, the rich must not give more than the specified amount, and the poor must not give less.”

Leviticus 19:10
“It is the same with your grape crop—do not strip every last bunch of grapes from the vines, and do not pick up the grapes that fall to the ground. Leave them for the poor and the foreigners living among you. I am the Lord your God.”

Leviticus 23:22
“When you harvest the crops of your land, do not harvest the grain along the edges of your fields, and do not pick up what the harvesters drop. Leave it for the poor and the foreigners living among you. I am the Lord your God.”

Leviticus 25:35
“If one of your fellow Israelites falls into poverty and cannot support himself, support him as you would a foreigner or a temporary resident and allow him to live with you.”

Deuteronomy 15:7
“But if there are any poor Israelites in your towns when you arrive in the land the Lord your God is giving you, do not be hard-hearted or tightfisted toward them.”

Deuteronomy 15:10
“Give generously to the poor, not grudgingly, for the Lord your God will bless you in everything you do.”

Deuteronomy 15:11
“There will always be some in the land who are poor. That is why I am commanding you to share freely with the poor and with other Israelites in need.”

Deuteronomy 24:14
“Never take advantage of poor and destitute laborers, whether they are fellow Israelites or foreigners living in your towns.”

Deuteronomy 27:19
“Cursed is the man who withholds justice from the alien, the fatherless or the widow.”

1 Samuel 2:8
“He lifts the poor from the dust and the needy from the garbage dump. He sets them among princes, placing them in seats of honor.”

Job 20:10
“His children must make amends to the poor; his own hands must give back his wealth.”

Job 22:8-10
“You probably think the land belongs to the powerful and only the privileged have a right to it! You must have sent widows away empty-handed and crushed the hopes of orphans. That is why you are surrounded by traps and tremble from sudden fears.”

Job 29:11-13
“All who heard me praised me. All who saw me spoke well of me. For I assisted the poor in their need and the orphans who required help. I helped those without hope, and they blessed me. And I caused the widows’ hearts to sing for joy.”

Job 30:25
“Have I not wept for those in trouble? has not my soul grieved for the poor?”

Job 31:16-23
“Have I refused to help the poor, or crushed the hopes of widows? Have I been stingy with my food and refused to share it with orphans? No, from childhood I have cared for orphans like a father, and all my life I have cared for widows. Whenever I saw the homeless without clothes and the needy with nothing to wear, did they not praise me for providing wool clothing to keep them warm? If I raised my hand against an orphan, knowing the judges would take my side, then let my shoulder be wrenched out of place! Let my arm be torn from its socket! That would be better than facing God’s judgment. For if the majesty of God opposes me, what hope is there?”

Psalm 12:5
“I have seen violence done to the helpless, and I have heard the groans of the poor. Now I will rise up to rescue them, as they have longed for me to do.”

Psalm 72:4
“Help him to defend the poor, to rescue the children of the needy, and to crush their oppressors.”

Psalm 72:12
“He will rescue the poor when they cry to him; he will help the oppressed, who have no one to defend them.”

Psalm 82:3
“Give justice to the poor and the orphan; uphold the rights of the oppressed and the destitute.”

Psalm 82:4
“Rescue the poor and helpless; deliver them from the grasp of evil people.”

Psalm 113:7-8
“He raises the poor from the dust and lifts the needy from the ash heap; he seats them with princes, with the princes of their people.”

Psalm 140:12
“I know that the Lord secures justice for the poor and upholds the cause of the needy.”

Psalm 146:9
“The Lord protects the foreigners among us. He cares for the orphans and widows, but he frustrates the plans of the wicked.”

Proverbs 14:31
“He who oppresses the poor shows contempt for their Maker, but whoever is kind to the needy honors God.”

Proverbs 19:17
“If you help the poor, you are lending to the Lord—and he will repay you!”

Proverbs 21:13
“If a man shuts his ears to the cry of the poor, he too will cry out and not be answered.”

Proverbs 22:22
“Don’t rob the poor just because you can, or exploit the needy in court.”

Proverbs 29:7
“The godly care about the rights of the poor; the wicked don’t care at all.”

Proverbs 29:13
“The poor and the oppressor have this in common—the Lord gives sight to the eyes of both.”

Proverbs 29:14
“If a king judges the poor fairly, his throne will last forever.”

Isaiah 1:17
“Learn to do right! Seek justice, encourage the oppressed. Defend the cause of the fatherless, plead the case of the widow.”

Isaiah 11:4
“He will give justice to the poor and make fair decisions for the exploited.The earth will shake at the force of his word,and one breath from his mouth will destroy the wicked.”

Isaiah 25:4
“But you are a tower of refuge to the poor, O Lord, a tower of refuge to the needy in distress.You are a refuge from the storm and a shelter from the heat.”

Isaiah 32:7
“The scoundrel’s methods are wicked; he makes up evil schemes to destroy the poor with lies, even when the plea of the needy is just.”

Isaiah 58:6-7
“No, this is the kind of fasting I want: Free those who are wrongly imprisoned; lighten the burden of those who work for you. Let the oppressed go free, and remove the chains that bind people. Share your food with the hungry, and give shelter to the homeless. Give clothes to those who need them, and do not hide from relatives who need your help.”

Isaiah 61:1
“The Spirit of the Sovereign Lord is upon me, for the Lord has anointed me to bring good news to the poor. He has sent me to comfort the brokenhearted and to proclaim that captives will be released and prisoners will be freed.”

Jeremiah 5:28
“They are fat and sleek, and there is no limit to their wicked deeds. They refuse to provide justice to orphans and deny the rights of the poor.”

Ezekiel 16:49
“Sodom’s sins were pride, gluttony, and laziness, while the poor and needy suffered outside her door.”

Ezekiel 22:29
“The people of the land practice extortion and commit robbery; they oppress the poor and needy and mistreat the alien, denying them justice.”

Amos 2:6
“This is what the Lord says: ‘The people of Israel have sinned again and again, and I will not let them go unpunished! They sell honorable people for silver and poor people for a pair of sandals.’”

Amos 5:11-12
“You trample the poor, stealing their grain through taxes and unfair rent. Therefore, though you build beautiful stone houses, you will never live in them. Though you plant lush vineyards, you will never drink wine from them. For I know the vast number of your sins and the depth of your rebellions. You oppress good people by taking bribes and deprive the poor of justice in the courts.”

Zechariah 7:10
“Do not oppress widows, orphans, foreigners, and the poor. And do not scheme against each other.”

Matthew 5:3
“God blesses those who are poor and realize their need for him, for the Kingdom of Heaven is theirs.”

Matthew 6:2-3
“When you give to someone in need, don’t do as the hypocrites do—blowing trumpets in the synagogues and streets to call attention to their acts of charity! I tell you the truth, they have received all the reward they will ever get. 3 But when you give to someone in need, don’t let your left hand know what your right hand is doing.”

Matthew 19:21
“Jesus told him, ‘If you want to be perfect, go and sell all your possessions and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.’”

Luke 3:11
“John replied, ‘If you have two shirts, give one to the poor. If you have food, share it with those who are hungry.’”

Luke 4:18
“The Spirit of the Lord is upon me,for he has anointed me to bring Good News to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim that captives will be released, that the blind will see, that the oppressed will be set free.”

Luke 14:13
“Instead, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind.”

Luke 14:21
“The servant returned and told his master what they had said. His master was furious and said, ‘Go quickly into the streets and alleys of the town and invite the poor, the crippled, the blind, and the lame.’”

Luke 18:22
“When Jesus heard his answer, he said, ‘There is still one thing you haven’t done. Sell all your possessions and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.’”

Luke 19:8
“Meanwhile, Zacchaeus stood before the Lord and said, ‘I will give half my wealth to the poor, Lord, and if I have cheated people on their taxes, I will give them back four times as much!’”

Acts 9:36
“There was a believer in Joppa named Tabitha. She was always doing kind things for others and helping the poor.”

Acts 10:31
“He told me, ‘Cornelius, your prayer has been heard, and your gifts to the poor have been noticed by God!’”

Romans 15:26
“For you see, the believers in Macedonia and Achaia have eagerly taken up an offering for the poor among the believers in Jerusalem.”

2 Corinthians 9:9
“As the Scriptures say, ‘They share freely and give generously to the poor. Their good deeds will be remembered forever.’”

Galatians 2:10
“Their only suggestion was that we keep on helping the poor, which I have always been eager to do.”

James 1:27
“Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you.”

James 2:5
“Listen to me, dear brothers and sisters. Hasn’t God chosen the poor in this world to be rich in faith? Aren’t they the ones who will inherit the Kingdom he promised to those who love him?”

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PLNTD Nashville Conference | Cultivating Gospel Leadership

If you are in the southeast and are a church planter, seminary student, or pastor, I would highly recommend this conference put on by friends of mine at PLNTD. PLNTD is a church planting network that strives to provide training and coaching to God-called men so they can navigate the challenging steps and seasons of planting a church.

 HT: Timmy Brister

The third and final training event in the “Cultivating” theme of the PLNTD Network is scheduled to take place Nov. 1-3, 2012 in Nashville, Tennessee. Earlier this Spring, PLNTD hosted “Cultivating Gospel Community” in South Florida with Steve Timmis and Tim Chester. Next month, PLNTD will host “Cultivating Gospel Mission” in New England with Caesar Kalinowski and Scotty Smith. And finally, on November 1-3, PLNTD will host “Cultivating Gospel Leadership” in Nashville with Ed Stetzer and Trevin Wax.

In some circles you can find a lot of the conversation focused on church leadership. In other circles, a lot of the conversation is about gospel centrality. However, rarely do you find those two topics addressed by the same people. In the Nashville training event, we hope to forward the development of thinking in this regard, namely to have a philosophy of leadership driven by a robust commitment of the gospel and seeing its implications worked out in local church life.

To do this, we have asked Ed Stetzer and Trevin Wax to come and speak on what exactly gospel-driven leadership looks like in the church. Stetzer will tackle the topic largely from a leadership emphasis while Wax will help us think about leadership from a gospel grid, bringing emphasis to how our identity in Christ shapes how we lead others in ministry. In addition to these main session talks, there will also be two panel discussions and two breakout sessions to break down gospel-driven leadership in greater detail, including its practical outworking in various seasons and ministry contexts.

Some of you here know that I have studied and written somewhat extensively abouttriperspectivalism and church leadership. For the Nashville training event, I agreed to do a pre-conference (limited to 40 people) on the nature, framework, and outworking of triperspectivalism in church life, including cultural engagement, disciple-making, spiritual formation, preaching, prayer, and leadership development. This will take place Thursday night (Nov. 1) and Friday morning (Nov. 2). If you are looking to consider a gospel-centered philosophy of leadership, I encourage you to jump into this pre-conference! It will be practical and interactive, giving you margin to explore how such a paradigm of leadership could work in your church or ministry.

This training event is open to pastors and church planters, to leadership teams and launch teams, to seminary/college students and ministry interns/apprentices. Basically, if you are aspiring to lead in the local church and want to press into a distinctly gospel-driven flavor of leadership, we encourage you to come!

This week only, we have a special registration rate of just $29. At midnight Saturday night, this opening rate registration will end, so don’t delay! You can get all the details about hotels, restaurants, schedule, etc. at the conference website. I hope to see many of you there!

Conference Website || Register!

 

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